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  • Do not do this if you are transgender or have an X gender marker. They will cancel your passport and tell you to apply for a new one with your sex assigned at birth.

    Set aside for a moment that ICE has a habit of thinking IDs are fake, I really wonder if this is a point where it might be worth prioritizing. If it’s increasing the likelihood of being deported, kidnapped, tortured, or similar, than I think there’s a legitimate question of whether dealing with the gender dysphoria is worse than that. I’m not saying it necessarily isn’t, that may be different from person to person, but it’s definitely something that should be considered carefully.

    Of course, the safest option is probably trying to get the hell out of the US, but I’m not going to get into that can of worms.







  • Honestly, I’ve read through his comments, and I’m surprised at how much bad faith is being assumed here.

    He never actually defined anything. He essentially said that trans women cannot get pregnant and trans men cannot impregnate someone - at least not naturally (although I am curious to see what science will come up with in the next couple of decades). That’s just a fact, unless you have some evidence otherwise.

    Yes, of course there are cis people that can’t have kids, he never said anything to the opposite effect. Just because there are people with eyes who can’t see doesn’t mean that the statement “people without eyes can’t see” is false.

    And OK, people from “terftown” apparently say similar things - honestly, I don’t hang out there specifically because I don’t like the transphobia, how the hell should I or anyone else who doesn’t hang out there know? Can we please just judge people by what they say, and not by what other people say? Because this is turning into a “Hitler also drank water” argument.



  • First off: if, then he wouldn’t be a pedophile but a hebephile. Small, but important difference.

    Second: there are the laws. If you’re breaking laws, it could quickly become a problem (obviously).

    But finally, what you were actually getting to: it really depends. There are plenty of age cases that are unacceptable no matter what (e.g. if he were 25 instead of 19, for instance). People mature differently. I’ve met people who were 16 where you could think they were 20, and vice-versa. If one is much more mature than the other, than you have a power imbalance, and that’s the problem. And that can happen with two people of the same age, as well (although it’s less likely).

    So, no, 16 and 19 isn’t necessarily wrong, per se. The question is: is the relationship in question problematic?