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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • I occasionally do fun little experiments with others and there phones (with contest) where we find a subject we both have absolutely no interest in, and we figure it out without any electronics at all around, like our back and what not, then we agree to not do anything with our electronics about it at all and only talk to each other about it by our phones, and every fucking time we both start to get add recommendations about whatever we was talking about.

    Had a past friend who was asexual and aromantic and never really cared or looked into paternity tests and baby stuff (because like why?) and after a few days of randomly talking about it they got tons of adds targeted for pregnant women (they was trans non binary but was afab)

    So from my limited tests, it absolutely does spy on us








  • It makes me want to understand and listen to them more because I know from my past that when people apologize to much it’s usually because a lot of trauma and bad people in there past, so instead of saying they should stop, I just simply respond to the apology positively, like “no problem” or " totally ok. No worries". Give them time to trust me and know that do it out of fear and repetition and it’s a reflex from there traumatic past.




  • My eol, tired, in constant pain, extremely bored. Been disabled fory whole life but government says *checks notes fold laundry and work at a phone switchboard, been battling for ss for 10 years. If my mom dies I’m pretty much fucked and homeless and I can barely handle anything now. Just want everything to be done with.