What are you for?

I refuse to play mind games with the unarmed.

If I say I do X and you say the healthier way is Y, that is a response to what I said and a judgment. If that’s not what it is, you’d need to write it differently.

Yeah the hard part is that there no real established science on this, it’s the wild west online and we’re approaching it slowly with open conversation and trust at an age appropriate level. There’s some risk but that will always be true.

It’ll only be when we look back that we’ll maybe know the right way but maybe not. Like a lot of things, it’s very context dependent… the child, the family, the village, the relationships, the school, etc etc

When you say things like “the healthier way is…” that’s a response to me directly and a judgment. So it’s that kind of thing.

But sure it’s fine, I’m open to the conversation, just not up for defending a decision.

I think you’re assuming a lot from a little. I’m not explaining every thing we do around my home and my kids. I’m explaining 1 thing, it’s not everything.

You are really telling everyone how little you know about parenting. This is what parenting looks like. You parent the kids you have with the skills and tools available. It doesn’t look the same for everyone.

You should probably sit back down.

Yes, it’s part of set them up to succeed not fail. And another part of it is I want them to have a clean break from the outside world, from friendship drama or clinginess, from school stuff, etc. Digital switch off isn’t something people are good at doing by themselves as adults!

My kid has it in their schoolbag, just wears it on the way home and later if they go out. They don’t have to wear it all the time.

Yes there are a multitude of reasons, not least that filtering only does so much and constant surveillance is unrealistic.

None of their friends have phones.

This has been so good for me and my kid. If they are out and feel like they need adult help, we are a watch tap away. If they want to come home early from a friend’s house, send me a code and I’m there. If they want to go to their friend’s house after school, I’m a text away.

We have a no phone until you’re 13 rule so while the watch is a stripped down phone, it’s not a phone so easy for us all to understand, plus it’s already stripped down, no hassle no fuss.

That’s all I used to go there for, but not sure if it’s different ice-cream in Europe.

I’m on both Mastodon and Bluesky but BS feels smoother and gives me more content after following some users and content than Mastodon ever did. I really want MD to work out and I’ll go back there but I have neither the time nor the skills to develop or grow it myself.

I need to be out of the physical office all the time to deal with my actual life. How about that? WFH 4eva

You’re good, they said they actually need more of everything. So I was wrong but I like to think we were both wrong 😄

Oh ok cool! I thought you needed help on the minorities. It’s so true what you’ve found too,I never thought about it before.

Except he’s not a woman or dark skinned, which is what the poster is looking for.

Maybe it’s to help them.

Don’t tell me, I like the illusion.

How are they saying “potentially” endangered someone’s life? This is an “absolutely definitely” endangered her life story.

Try not to be so judgemental.