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  • no, I’m not named after the character in The Witcher, I’ve never played
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Cake day: March 2nd, 2024

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  • The English word comes from Latin, septem = 7, membris or mens = month (like menstruation).

    In the Roman calendar the months are:

    1. March
    2. February
    3. May
    4. June
    5. July
    6. August
    7. September
    8. October
    9. November
    10. December

    So the order of the months was more logical, and a Roman would naturally understand that September, October, November, and December read as literally the seventh, eighth, ninth, and tenth month respectively.

    I basically constantly have to manually correct myself over and over that for example September is the 9th month, to look for the number 9 even though when I read “September” I am reading “seventh month” and my brain automatically wants to look for 7.

    I think most people would not relate to my experience of the months let alone how upsetting this is to me, hence I consider it a “small hill” to die on, lol. But it’s a very big hill in my world!












  • this is a bit of how Blahaj works as I understand it, so it’s a good model - if anything I would think Blahaj might already be poised for this kind of instance-level protection of women

    EDIT:

    one of the Blahaj guidelines does include removing bigotry, including sexism, and would be a candidate for a safe space for women:

    Inclusion and Acceptance

    Embracing inclusion and acceptance means listening when people tell you who they are and what their needs are. It means not telling people that you know their experiences better than they do. It means not gatekeeping experiences of identities of others. It means no bigotry such as racism, sexism, anti LGBT commentary, ableism etc. It means doing your best to ensure that you don’t over-talk the voices of folk who don’t share your privileges.

    That said, the women spaces on Blahaj are mostly for trans women, so a more general women’s community would be nice.