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Cake day: October 3rd, 2025

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  • The problem is trust.

    People don’t pay for the expensive (allegedly better) stuff because the customer assumes with great chances of being correct that the sales person doesn’t know shit, is lying to their face, and will not honor any of their words after you pay.

    Customers don’t trust. So if you know that you are getting crap anyway, you better get cheap crap.

    Then the corporate analysis interprets that pattern as “oh, the customer does not value quality, they just want cheap crap, let’s keep doing cheap crap”








  • You both need a time off, stop or make interactions really “rational and controlled”. It takes time to shift to different dynamic between you two.

    Once you both (or at least one of you) get new partners, things will be more promising for a genuine friendship.

    Otherwise, lingering feelings or “emotionally weak” days seriously risk ruining the relationship and make things permanently awkward.

    source: my own experience. I am best friends with my ex. And lived the process myself.