Pili

You can do whatever you want with your life. If you’re not comfortable with going, then you shouldn’t go.

You should also ask yourself if you’ll be ok in the future with the idea that your and your brother’s opinion about a third person, who isn’t a part about either of your lives, is a valid ground for potentially breaking forever your relationship with your brother. Maybe simply avoiding this topic that creates tensions would be enough?

Neither of you is an asshole.

But it sucks and it’s full of right wing content.

Are you still counting the Iraqi WMDs when you go to bed?

From the Guardian article somebody else linked:

One of the most significant challenges that Pegasus presents to journalists and human rights defenders is the fact that the software exploits undiscovered vulnerabilities, meaning even the most security-conscious mobile phone user cannot prevent an attack.