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  • Mobiuthuselah@lemm.eetoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWhat hills are you dying on?
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    7 days ago

    Question about the first one. Do you consider English a living language that evolves over time?

    To that point, do you ever phonetically say boatswain instead of bosun? Which way do you spell it? How do you (personally) pronounce Worcestershire sauce? How do you feel about onomatopoeias in general?

    I would argue that words evolve with vernacular and sometimes the spellings become antiquated. In the case of Worcestershire sauce, pronunciation can vary greatly from spelling. If ketchup bothers you, are onomatopoeias even words to you?

    Eventually, insisting on the old spelling becomes more ridiculous than going with the newer. Since you spell it catsup, can you bring yourself to use a squeeze bottle for it or are you still tapping that 57 hoping to get it to ooze?

    Seriously though, since this is the hill you’ll die on, convince me otherwise about vernacular and spelling.









  • Stopped biting my nails after about 35 years of tearing them to the quick. It wasn’t my first attempt, but when I successfully stopped, it was cold turkey. It’s been over four years now. I buy a new nail tool periodically to keep them looking good. I’m proud of them despite how trivial. The novelty of tapping on things and peeling stickers hasn’t worn off.



  • Not to downplay the point of the article, but I personally know many people who needed GoFundMe for housing due to the hurricane that hit Western North Carolina. One of my best friends has one while also already having one for his cancer treatment because his insurance wouldn’t cover it. He’s been a teacher for 27 years, but I guess this treatment was too experimental (read: too high of a success rate.)

    If you know anyone in WNC, don’t forget about them. We’re not okay. My wife and I saw an 85% nosedive in income during our busiest and most important time of the year. I’m grateful to have heat, walls and a roof, but I’m so so scared for winter. I’m just working as much as possible to keep us alive as we sink deeper debt. We have food assistance thanks to a wonderful nonprofit that we’ve always volunteered at and donated to every chance we can. We are also wealthier than many people, wealthier than most billionaires, because we have something money can’t buy: genuine, authentic relationships. We have deep friendships. We’re suffering and we need therapy, but we have shoulders to lean on. Nothing can replace that.